In the mind of every woman who has a long term relationship is marriage.

But it’s definitely a decision that you have to make after a lot of thought, judgment, and criticism.

So, through the criticism we make in our relationship, in ourselves and in our partner, we ultimately have to make a choice. And it better be a good one.

If your partner has any of the following 10 habits then it’s probably best to find someone else for you.

1. He hates animals

Objectively speaking, when a man loves animals, it shows someone who does not hesitate to show his emotions and someone who will become a great father in the future.

They say that animals have come to earth to teach people how to truly love and that if you do not love animals you cannot love humans.

But are there really people who don’t love animals? They exist indeed!

Studies have shown that people who dislike animals don’t open up easily or at all and do not like to express their emotions.

2. He doesn’t keep his promises

Keeping a promise is a big thing. It is what makes a man different from a child.

If your man does not live up to his promises, then it is not possible for the two of you to establish a well-structured relationship with trust and understanding.

3. He doesn’t say sorry

How many times have you argued with your loved one and haven’t been able to get to the bottom of things because he simply insists on being right no matter what?

This situation can be, without a doubt, very mentally exhausting for you and it can also affect your physical health.

People’s reluctance to apologizing is usually perceived as defense or excessive pride. But a deeper psychological look shows that the refusal to apologize reflects the effort to protect our ego.

Experts believe that apologizing is therapeutic and enhances good psychology. When a man apologizes, he is relieved of his mistakes and most importantly he builds a connection of trust and positive emotions.

4. Lack of maturity

Being old does not make someone emotionally mature.

Maturity plays a very important role in a relationship. If your partner shows signs that indicate a lack of maturity such as:

  • He doesn’t like to take responsibility
  • He constantly complains about the smallest things
  • He often seeks female acceptance and affirmation

then it would be better for you to find a more mature partner in your life.

A real man knows what he wants and what he doesn’t and lives his life based on his own values ​​and standards. He spends no time playing games with himself or others.

5. Physical or emotional violence

This is one of the biggest signals in a relationship that tells you to run and never look back.

Being with a person who is often irritable, gets annoyed with simple things and takes it out on you by either hitting you or attacking you verbally is a really difficult and painful thing to go through.

If you are in a similar position then the best thing to do is to let go of him and try to find someone else, because he really destroys your life.

6. He hates family

If you want to get married and have a nice family one day, then maybe men who don’t want kids will be a problem for you.

Of course, anyone’s preference is understandable and must be always respected, but you should look elsewhere if you love babies as much as I do.

7. He lies

Being honest with one another is one of the most important (if not the most important) traits to have in a relationship. If it is often that your loved one is lying, this is bad news.

It doesn’t matter if he’s lying about small or big things, the point is that he has grown this way, and if you think you can change him, you’re wrong.

And that is because it is usually very difficult to change someone who has grown up with a certain habit.

If he doesn’t want to change himself then there is nothing you can do about it.

8. He’s stingy

Excessive stinginess could easily be likened to misery.

It is perfectly understandable to be careful with your finances, especially if they are not in very good shape. But it’s another thing to be a housekeeper and another to be stingy.

The profile of someone like that is characterized by greed, selfishness, and misery. He doesn’t want to invest in whatever costs money and the thought of paying hurts him. He also thinks too much before making a purchase and does not make it unless he has studied all the parameters.

However, this sting not only affects him, but it also affects you, making relationships with such people problematic.

9. He doesn’t really listen

When you talk to your partner about things that concern you or bothering you and you feel that he listens passively rather than actively, then there is a problem.

This is a bad thing because it usually means that he does not really care about you and what is going on in your life.

10. He’s all over you

It is generally not a good sign when someone is very addicted and stuck to you.

Apart from not letting you live your personal life the way you want, it shows that your partner does not have a healthy and mature personality.

FINAL THOUGHTS: All relationships in a person’s life would be best chosen with the right mindset. You would have to be really skeptical about your choices even if something feels right at that time. To summarize, you should not hurry at all and it would be wise to spend some time with your partner before walking down the aisle.


  1. Jody February 6, 2020 at 5:46 AM

    All very good flags to watch out for. So true about not being able to say sorry. If they don’t love family what is the point in trying to start a family.

    1. Catherine February 28, 2020 at 4:08 PM

      You are so right on that! Thanks for reading!

  2. Carlyn December 26, 2019 at 9:36 AM

    Wow! These are great tips on flags to look for while your dating. Stingy reminds me of Scrooge who traded the love of his life for money.

  3. Patricia December 26, 2019 at 9:00 AM

    Great advice. Thank you.

  4. Nina December 26, 2019 at 8:17 AM

    Great points ! thank you for sharing.

  5. Divine December 26, 2019 at 8:11 AM

    Those are really great advices. Being in a relationship with someone who is emotionally and physically abuse is a complete NO NO!

    1. Catherine February 28, 2020 at 4:05 PM

      Indeed! Thanks for reading!


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