If you are wondering how you can be more attractive instantly you are in the right place.

You may think that in order for you to be attractive you just have to be beautiful but in reality, it goes far deeper than your looks.

Attractive people are not necessarily beautiful. What makes a woman glamorous, attractive and capable of captivating everyone around her? Certainly, more than having beautiful eyes, lips or body.

Regardless of a woman’s beauty, there are scientifically proven ways to become more attractive.

Science has finally spoken and states that it has found documented ways to guarantee this.

Through various studies, scientists have helped create a list of simple things that can make a woman more attractive to those around her.

I think we can all agree that there is not a single woman who doesn’t want to be attractive and get everyone’s attention.

How do you achieve this? It is not difficult. And you don’t need a lot of money on makeup or an extreme makeover. You can just change your body language. The body is talking and whether you understand it or not, it says a lot. Time to learn to control that for your benefit.

But first, to be liked from those around you, you have to like yourself above and beyond.

Here are the habits of super attractive women that will make you irresistible to any human being.

1) They listen

woman listening to a man

Listening to what other people say and noticing their emotions makes you a very likable human being.

Connecting with other people is human nature and being open and kind to people makes you a super attractive woman.

People are happy when others listen to them and try to understand them. Being a good listener is one of the most attractive skills a person can have because it is a way to build relationships with others.

When we listen carefully, we will be able to create quite special moments with other people.

Being a good listener means that we actually listen to what the other person is saying and thus make them feel that someone understands them. It is a charming skill that creates strong bonds and relationships.

2) They show gratitude

woman showing gratitude to someone

Another way that can make you attractive is to tell those around you how much you appreciate them. Besides the fact that this makes you happier as a person it also strengthens the relationships you have with other people.

Simple things like saying good morning to your neighbor and chatting with others will make you more attractive in their eyes.

When we show gratitude to people, they feel fascinated because we radiate positive energy that makes people feel that they are loved and appreciated.

Also, learn to say thank you even for the smallest things and this will make the biggest difference.

3) They are genuine

little genuine girl

Being yourself and having your own opinion is the most attractive quality ever. It’s really likable to have a unique personality that doesn’t get easily influenced by others.

Nowadays most people try to please everyone in order to be likable but that just doesn’t work in the long run. It’s better to have fewer people that actually like you for who you are than have many who like a fake persona.

4) They smile more

woman smiling

A smile can make all the difference in the world. And nowadays we definitely need more smiles.

Besides the fact that you will instantly become more attractive to everyone, you will also make other people’s day and that’s something remarkable.

Smiling is one of the most basic and easiest things one can do to attract other people around you. A smile releases endorphin, which boosts our mood, which will give us positive energy and make us smile more.

It’s an endless cycle of joy and well-being. When people see us smiling, they feel a positive energy and connect with us on a whole new level.

There are certainly many reasons to smile. But the most common one is joy. According to psychologists, every time we smile at someone, their brain pushes them to reciprocate.

We thus create a relationship that allows both of them to feel better, be more attractive to each other, and increase our chances of living longer and healthier lives.

A smile can really unite people and truth be told not many men can resist a beautiful genuine smile.

5) They are confident

confident girl

It is said that confidence is key. Confidence makes us attractive while at the same time it makes us feel better about ourselves.

If you don’t believe in yourself no one else will do it for you! Women with confidence are highly attractive to other people because they believe in themselves and they know how to stand their ground.

Confidence gives you safety and security to keep fighting for what you want out of your life and that really shows.

If you are confident you can manage any problem that comes in your way. Nobody likes someone who is embarrassed about a problem and of course it does not appeal to men at all.

On the contrary, having the confidence to conquer any problem shows that you have important skills and you do not need anyone in order to take care of it.

I am telling you, nothing is more appealing than a woman knowing who she is and not needing to pretend anything else.

A woman who doesn’t need roles and masks. She is herself, with her good and bad sides, her weaknesses, but also fully aware of how wonderful she is. And the more aware she is, the more irresistible she becomes in the eyes of others.

6) They take care of themselves

heart shape

Every woman who takes her appearance and well-being seriously takes care of herself.

This is a sign that tells others that you actually care about yourself, and that itself is something important because how can a woman be attractive when she doesn’t care about herself in the first place?

7) They have a great sense of humor

goofy girl

A great sense of humor is one of the most attractive things in a woman. Humor is a sign of intelligence and also indicates a personality without complexes.

It is true that looks play an important role on the first date but many researches have proved that men tend to prefer women with a great sense of humor instead of just a good appearance.

If a woman has humor, she will never be left alone, either on a personal or friendly level. After all, who likes to associate with people who don’t make jokes, never smile and don’t even realize the humor of their interlocutor.

To sum up, the main point here is that a great sense of humor is way more attractive that just good looks in the long run. And that’s how it should be. Personality over looks all the way.

8) They make sure to get enough sleep

woman sleeping on a bed

One important factor that will really help you look your absolute best every day is to get enough quality sleep.

Nowadays we often overlook sleep because of our busy daily routine and work schedule but we have to make sure that we sleep well.

During normal sleep cycle, skin cells regenerate and toxins are being excreted. Another thing that’s happening while asleep is the production of collagen, a substance that provides firmness and density to the skin.

Short naps or poor sleep quality disrupts the skin regeneration process and thus making you look worse in the morning.

Some of the physical effects of lack of sleep include dark circles under the eyes, swollen eyelids, and wrinkles.

Given these points, you want to make sure to get your beauty sleep every night so that you look the absolute best every day.

9) They say no

no sign

You have to learn to say no to things that don’t benefit you in any way. You certainly can’t please everyone and by saying no to something you actually show that you have your own personality and not just following others blindly.

That is something really attractive because nowadays almost everyone is willing to do anything in order to be liked by others no matter the cost.

FINAL THOUGHTS: Remember, beauty is mainly on the inside. These easy to follow tips will help you be more attractive instantly regardless of your physical beauty.


  1. Pooja Sharma April 20, 2020 at 5:40 AM

    These are such amazing and genuine thoughts!! I never thought on these lines. Such women have a positive aura around that could bring smiles on faces.

    1. Catherine April 20, 2020 at 9:30 AM

      Thanks for your feedback!

  2. Marjie Mare April 12, 2020 at 1:23 PM

    Smiling and showing gratitude are two great qualities that everyone should practice.

    1. Catherine April 13, 2020 at 11:59 AM

      I agree. Thanks for reading!

  3. Robyn Jones April 11, 2020 at 4:15 PM

    I agree with all of these. Very informative article!

    1. Catherine April 12, 2020 at 1:23 AM

      Thanks for your feedback Robyn!

  4. MJ April 11, 2020 at 12:47 AM

    Great read and wonderful that it show cased character/ personality traits that make women attractive instead of just physical attributes.
    XO, MJ

    1. Catherine April 11, 2020 at 8:15 AM

      Thanks for your feedback!

  5. Monidipa April 10, 2020 at 11:11 PM

    Exactly, these are the habits most men crave for and people like it even. Great advices. Thanks.

  6. LuciWest April 10, 2020 at 4:35 PM

    Great perspective to start right off with: attractive doesn’t have to mean physically beautiful. I think all your points are inspiring and I’d consider attractive, too.

  7. Natasha April 10, 2020 at 2:55 PM

    When I read this I thought about the difference between physically attractive women vs overall attractive women. It’s the qualities that matter!

    1. Catherine April 10, 2020 at 3:00 PM

      Exactly. Thanks for reading Natasha!

      1. Elizabeth O April 23, 2020 at 10:32 AM

        These are common-sense tips that would make anyone look and feel beautiful. Beauty really begins within and is in the eyes of the beholder.

        1. Catherine April 23, 2020 at 10:38 AM

          I agree. Thanks for reading Elizabeth!

  8. Angie April 10, 2020 at 1:46 PM

    Saying no is definitely the hardest thing to do. A lot of these things aren’t limited to someone being attractive or a woman either, I think a lot of people could benefit from the advice!

  9. Rebecca Sanchez April 10, 2020 at 11:03 AM

    Love the showcase of what makes a woman attractive! One thing I would add, is that attractive women talk about things and not people.

    1. Catherine April 10, 2020 at 11:50 AM

      Good point. Thanks for reading Rebecca!

  10. Paul Murphy April 10, 2020 at 7:21 AM

    Nice post! Agree with all these points!!!! I think a women (and men) who are happy and secure in themselves are really great people to be around!!! Happy Easter!!!

    1. Catherine April 10, 2020 at 7:39 AM

      Thanks for reading! Happy Easter to you too ?

  11. Lyosha April 10, 2020 at 6:21 AM

    Great tips! I actually mirror what most of my male friends say about women they like if you don’t speak of the looks.

  12. Kemi April 10, 2020 at 1:51 AM

    Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder and attraction doesn’t necessarily mean physical beauty so I’m glad these non-physical qualities are top of the list.

    1. Catherine April 10, 2020 at 7:39 AM

      Thanks for your feedback!

  13. Di Hickman April 9, 2020 at 6:38 PM

    Confidence confidence confidence! Everybody notices a woman with confidence! I remember reading a quote years ago “act like you own the room, and you will”. So true!

    1. Catherine April 10, 2020 at 7:43 AM

      I couldn’t agree more with that. Thanks for reading ?

  14. Chelsea April 9, 2020 at 5:33 PM

    I love these tips. I was expecting outer beauty tips and you focused a lot on inner beauty traits. Those really work their way outwards more than anything you can put on your face.

    1. Catherine April 10, 2020 at 7:44 AM

      I agree. Thanks for reading!

  15. Elizabeth Elkassih April 9, 2020 at 3:41 PM

    I love these insights. Women are definitely attractive in so many ways. Thanks for sharing.

  16. Khushboo April 9, 2020 at 1:46 PM

    That’s a very well written post. I agree with all the points you mentioned in your post.

    1. Catherine April 9, 2020 at 4:42 PM

      Thanks for your feedback.

  17. Morgan @ Baby Got Balance April 9, 2020 at 11:42 AM

    I think the most important thing a woman can do to “be attractive” is to find value in herself based on her own values/beliefs/interests. Confidence and self worth are qualities that make people, regardless of gender, stand out.

    1. Catherine April 9, 2020 at 1:14 PM

      I agree 100%. Thanks for reading!

  18. Anirban Panda April 9, 2020 at 2:00 AM

    Loved the way you presented the need of positive vibes coming from a person. People need proper care of physical and mental health in order to stay fit, active and attractive.

    1. Catherine April 9, 2020 at 2:33 AM

      Glad you liked it. Thanks for reading!

  19. Eric Gamble April 8, 2020 at 9:37 PM

    Love how you showcase these habits of super attractive women. I mean attraction is quite in the eyes of the beholder in terms of a chemical aspect. But there is always something true when you see a woman smiling and laughing and enjoying life in a real and genuine and soft sort of way.
    Of course confidence can always be help but I often feel a touch of humility and generous care can easily soften a woman’s features in such a beautiful way.

    1. Catherine April 9, 2020 at 2:31 AM

      I totally agree. Thanks for the feedback!


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